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How to Start Journaling (Even If You’ve Tried and Given Up Before)

If you’ve ever bought a beautiful notebook, written in it twice, and then felt guilty every time you walked past it  this post is for you.

Journaling is one of the most powerful tools I know for mental clarity, emotional processing, and nervous system regulation. And yet it’s one of the things women tell me they want to do but just can’t seem to make stick.

The reason it hasn’t worked yet isn’t a lack of willpower. It’s that nobody taught you how to actually do it.

Let’s change that today.

Why Journaling Works: The Science Bit.

Journaling isn’t just putting words on a page. It’s a form of emotional processing that has been studied extensively and shown to:

Reduce cortisol levels writing about your feelings helps your brain move from emotional reaction to rational processing, which physically lowers your stress response.

Improve sleep a 2018 study published in the Journal of Experimental Psychology found that writing a to-do list or brain dump before bed helped people fall asleep faster by offloading unfinished thoughts from the mind.

Support mental health expressive writing has been shown to reduce symptoms of anxiety and depression, particularly in people who tend to internalise their emotions.

Increase self-awareness  when you write consistently, patterns emerge. You begin to notice what drains you, what lights you up, and what your body is trying to tell you.

Your journal is not a diary. It is a tool for healing.

Why Most People Give Up

Before we talk about how to start, let’s talk about why it hasn’t worked before before because I hear the same reasons again and again.

“I don’t know what to write”

You sit down, pen in hand, and your mind goes completely blank. So you close the notebook and tell yourself you’ll try again tomorrow.

“I don’t have time” You imagine journaling has to be a long, elaborate ritual. It doesn’t.

“I feel silly”

You start writing and immediately feel self-conscious, as though someone is reading over your shoulder. Even when you’re completely alone.

“I’m not consistent enough”

You miss a few days and decide you’ve failed, so you stop altogether.

Every single one of these is completely normal. And every single one is solvable.

How to Actually Start

Start with just five minutes

Not thirty minutes. Not a full page. Five minutes. Set a timer, pick up your pen, and write until it goes off. That’s it. Five minutes of journaling done consistently will always beat an hour of journaling done once a month.

Write by hand, not on your phone

There is something about the physical act of handwriting that slows the brain down and creates a different quality of thought. Typing is fast and functional. Handwriting is reflective and healing. If you want the full benefit of journaling, use a pen and paper.

Don’t write for anyone but yourself

Your journal does not need to be eloquent, grammatically correct, or even coherent. It is not a performance. Nobody will ever read it. Give yourself full permission to be messy, honest, and raw.

Use a prompt if you’re stuck

You don’t need to stare at a blank page. A simple prompt gives your brain a starting point and the words tend to flow from there. I’ve included some of my favourites below.

Make it part of an existing routine

The easiest way to build a journaling habit is to attach it to something you already do. Morning coffee. Before bed. After your walk. Tuck your journal into that existing slot and it will start to feel natural within a week.

10 Journal Prompts to Get You Started

These are gentle, open-ended prompts that work whether you’re brand new to journaling or coming back after a long break.

How am I really feeling right now in my body and in my mind?

What is taking up the most space in my head today?

What do I need more of in my life right now?

What am I finding hardest at the moment, and why?

What would I tell my best friend if she was going through what I’m going through?

What am I holding onto that I need to let go of?

What has drained my energy this week? What has filled it?

What does my body need from me today?

What am I most proud of recently, however small?

What would feel really good to do for myself this week?

Pick  just one and write for five minutes without stopping.

If You’ve Tried Before and Given Up

I want to say something directly to you.

Giving up doesn’t mean journaling isn’t for you. It means you were probably trying to do too much, too perfectly, too soon.

Start smaller than feels necessary. One prompt. Five minutes. No pressure to be consistent right away. Just begin again, today, without any story about what happened last time.

The notebook doesn’t remember. And neither does your nervous system it only knows what you give it right now.

What to Do When You Miss a Day

Nothing. Absolutely nothing.

Pick up your journal the next day and carry on. Missing a day is not failure. It is just a Tuesday. The only way journaling stops working is if you stop doing it altogether and the only way that happens is if you make missing a day mean something it doesn’t.

The Invitation

You don’t need a perfect journal, a perfect routine, or a perfect mindset to begin. You just need five minutes and a pen.

Your thoughts deserve to be heard. Your feelings deserve to be processed. And you deserve the clarity, the calm, and the self-understanding that journaling can bring.

Start tonight. One prompt. Five minutes.

That’s enough.

💬 I’d love to hear from you

Are you a journaling beginner or someone coming back after a break? Which of the ten prompts are you going to try first?

Drop a comment below I read and reply to every single one. And if this post helped you, share it with a woman in your life who’s been meaning to start journaling. You might just give her the nudge she needed. 🌿

With warmth,

Leena 🌿

What Is Fibre and Why Does It Matter?

Fibre is the part of plant foods that your body cannot digest. That’s exactly what makes it so powerful.

While it passes through your digestive system largely intact, it does extraordinary things along the way feeding your beneficial gut bacteria, slowing the absorption of sugar into your bloodstream, keeping your bowels moving, and reducing inflammation throughout the body.

Fibre isn’t just a digestive aid. It directly influences your mood, your energy, your hormones, and your long-term health.

So How Much Do You Actually Need?

The NHS recommends 30g of fibre per day for adults. Most people in the UK are getting around 18g barely half of what their body needs.

To put 30g into perspective:

1 slice of wholegrain bread = roughly 2g

1 medium apple = roughly 4g

portion of broccoli = roughly 3g

1 tin of chickpeas = roughly 10g

1 tablespoon of chia seeds = roughly 5g

You can see how quickly the gap appears — especially if your diet includes a lot of processed or refined foods, which contain very little fibre at all.

What Happens When You Don’t Get Enough?

Low fibre intake is linked to:

Unstable blood sugar without fibre to slow things down, sugar hits your bloodstream fast, spiking cortisol and triggering that mid-morning anxiety or afternoon crash.

Poor gut health your beneficial gut bacteria literally feed on fibre. Without it, they starve, and your microbiome diversity drops. Since 90% of your serotonin is produced in your gut, this has a direct impact on your mood.

Sluggish digestion — constipation, bloating, and that heavy, uncomfortable feeling are classic signs of too little fibre.

Increased inflammation low fibre diets are associated with higher levels of chronic inflammation, which affects everything from your energy levels to your immune system.

5 Simple Ways to Eat More Fibre Every Day

You don’t need to overhaul your diet overnight. Small, consistent additions make a huge difference.

1Add seeds to everything

A tablespoon of chia seeds or ground flaxseed into your yoghurt, porridge, or smoothie adds 4–5g of fibre instantly. You won’t even taste it.

Choose whole grains over refined

Swap white bread for wholegrain, white rice for brown or wild rice. The fibre content can be two to three times higher.

Eat the skin

Leave the skin on your potatoes, apples, courgettes, and cucumbers. That’s where a significant portion of the fibre lives.

Add legumes to your meals

Chickpeas, lentils, black beans, and butter beans are fibre powerhouses. Add a handful to soups, salads, or stews  even one portion a day makes a noticeable difference.

Aim for variety, not just quantity

Different plants feed different strains of beneficial gut bacteria. Try to eat 30 different plant foods a week — this includes fruits, vegetables, wholegrains, nuts, seeds, herbs, and spices. It sounds like a lot, but a mixed salad alone can contain eight to ten.

One Important Thing to remember

If you’re currently eating very little fibre, increase it gradually. Adding too much too quickly can cause bloating and discomfort as your gut bacteria adjust. Increase slowly, drink plenty of water, and give your digestive system time to adapt.

The Bottom Line

Fibre is one of the most powerful and most underrated tools for your health. It stabilises your blood sugar, supports your mood, nourishes your gut, and protects your long-term wellbeing — all for the cost of a handful of seeds or an extra portion of vegetables.

Thirty grams a day. That’s your goal. And with small, intentional changes, it’s completely achievable.

💬 I’d love to hear from you

Do you think you’re hitting 30g a day? Or does this post make you realise the gap might be bigger than you thought?

Drop a comment below I read and reply to every single one. And if this was useful, please share it with someone who needs to hear it. You never know whose health you might change today. 🌿

With warmth,

Leena 🌿